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最近新加坡的社會學家委託大學做了一項調查，發現一對夫婦的婚姻成功與否，都跟拍拖的時間長短有關。受訪者是一千多名已婚及八百多名已離婚人士，問及他們拍拖及結婚時間之長短，結果發現閃電結婚的夫婦離婚率比其他的還要高。專家建議由拍拖到結婚，一般不要少於6個月，因為雙方需要時間，一同探討婚姻問題，如彼此在婚姻中的要求﹑人生目標等。

此外，調查更反映出戀愛時間的長短對於家庭分工﹑生兒育女都有很大的影響，婚姻持久的夫婦，丈夫平均負責5項家務，因此丈夫如能多負責些家務，將有助穩定婚姻，婚姻持久度可多出1.8倍。希望婚姻能長長久久的話，丈夫不妨主動負責多些家務了﹗(資料來源﹕中國婦女網)

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原帖由 任因玖 於 9-4-2008 20:30 發表最近新加坡的社會學家委託大學做了一項調查，發現一對夫婦的婚姻成功與否，都跟拍拖的時間長短有關。受訪者是一千多名已婚及八百多名已離婚人士，問及他們拍拖及結婚時間之長短，結果發現閃電結婚的夫婦離婚率 ...

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原帖由 任因玖 於 9-4-2008 20:30 發表最近新加坡的社會學家委託大學做了一項調查，發現一對夫婦的婚姻成功與否，都跟拍拖的時間長短有關。受訪者是一千多名已婚及八百多名已離婚人士，問及他們拍拖及結婚時間之長短，結果發現閃電結婚的夫婦離婚率 ...

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原帖由 任因玖 於 9-4-2008 20:30 發表最近新加坡的社會學家委託大學做了一項調查，發現一對夫婦的婚姻成功與否，都跟拍拖的時間長短有關。受訪者是一千多名已婚及八百多名已離婚人士，問及他們拍拖及結婚時間之長短，結果發現閃電結婚的夫婦離婚率 ...

I'm not sure that just being "together" always means a "successful" marriage. It is quite typical of (traditional) Chinese people to force themselves to stay with a lousy other-half. Some couples may be suffering, yet do not want to separate, maybe due to financial concerns/ kids/ peer or parental pressure, etc.

But of course it's common sense that two people should really take their time to really get to know each other before getting married.

i think today whole world's finance situation will also play a major role in this case.

If a man can make more money, then more likely his another half will not give him too much hard time.

If a man can make enough money just enough for the daily use, t hen this guy shouldn't expect his wife will make him happy..

If a man make enough not even enough for the food and basic stuff...then I he should jumped into Victoria harbor and think again... It is a man's job to make more money to make ladies happy ( That is today's women )..

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原帖由 拾實什習窄炸集 於 9-4-2008 23:38 發表 i think today whole world's finance situation will also play a major role in this case. If a man can make more money, then more likely his another half will not give him too much hard ti ...

what if the girl can make tons of money? would that lead to a good relationship?

I was actually introduced to a girl who has an amazing salary, recently. But I didn't find her attractive enough, and also I don't care about her money

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原帖由 ar_woo 於 9-4-2008 23:49 發表 what if the girl can make tons of money? would that lead to a good relationship? I was actually introduced to a girl who has an amazing salary, recently. But I didn't find her ...

I am saying that women are much lucky than men unless she is a very stranger lady or ugly or terrible voice